‘You're a completely different person': Man Confesses to His Girlfriend That He Lied About His Divorce and Is Still Married, Leading to Her Uncovering All the Lies About His Previous Relationship

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    AIO: my possible partner lied by omission and is technically still married.
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    Ok again I hope i didn't upset you or anything, and I hope so far things are going well between us. Things have been going good Ok I hope it keeps going that way, you can ask me stuff like you did yesterday, we can talk about whatever you want. Did you ask for the divorce or did your ex wife ask for it?
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    It's really personal, we were both awful to each other. She left I don't really want to talk about it because I don't want to be judged, and I don't want to ruin anything between us. We needed to get away from each other though. I don't want to make anyone take sides because it's wrong to do that. All I can say is I needed to get away from her. One of the most hurtful things she ever did to me, is she never wore her ring not once, she said it would give her an allergic reaction never wore it. It
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    I'm not feeling great about that answer. When you first told me about the divorce you told me she changed into a different person and was awful to you. You did not mention you being awful to her as well. Now you've told me you were both awful to each other which is new information to me. Not only that, you're saying you don't want to talk about it because you don't want to be judged but you've
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    already told me so much other personal information and I didn't judge you then so that seems like a cover for just not wanting to talk about it. We don't have to talk about it if you don't want to that's fine but you have to understand that does change things because that's a pretty big thing to not want to talk about. It would change things in terms of me not feeling like I know you or am getting to know you.
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    We both were bad to each other and she did change as a person. I cheated on her; there is no justification for it. I cheated on her because I needed to get away from her. She verbally and mentally abused me, and we fought a lot. It started out fine, our marriage, but over time we just got worse, and she used my mom for money and stole money from he
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    She left because she knew I was talking to someone else and I wanted to leave her and get away from her, which I know would be wrong because of my kids. I only say I don't want to talk about it because it's hard to talk about for me. I am crying right now typing this out. I know I have told you everything, but this is hard for me to talk about. That is the truth; that is the best way I can explain it, and we both changed as people. I'm not trying to hide anything from you;
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    it's just difficult for me, and I completely understand if you don't want to talk to me because of this new information. I understand if you don't want to communicate with me anymore. Just know that I wasn't trying to hide anything from you; this is just very hard for me to talk about. I understand if you don't want to talk anymore because of this it's fine I have to decide how I feel about that. No, it's fine. I understand you don't want to talk anymore. Don't waste your time on me. I'm not thr
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    relive. I understand t's fine. I forgive you for doing what you just did to me, and I understand you don't want to talk. I kind of feel like this whole thing between us is just a waste of time too, and I really don't feel like I can be myself towards you. I'm kind of hurt by what you just did to me. Do you still want to talk or no
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    These are the texts. I haven't answered from the last slide yet because I can't target exactly how I feel about our interaction.
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    The reason I felt that he was hiding this information from me; lying by omission is because the first time he mentioned his ex wife he only said she changed completely he
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    mentioned his ex wife he only said she changed completely he did not say a thing about his involvement in their divorce. He also didn't reveal until earlier that the papers for his divorce
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    was not signed and I said I do not want to date him before they're signed Which I felt wasn't complete honesty. He has also told me about his kids and his health issues (which is what's scribbled out here) and I
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    did not judge him then and those things were more personal in my opinion. I am thinking of just ending our entire interactions because of the way he responded, got defensive and put words in my mouth. Am i overreacting?
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    SuzCoffee Bean · 13 hr. ago • Pls find a new boyfriend this guy is a walking dumpster fire. 489 Reply Share TricksyGoose 7 hr. ago Right?!? • "I'm hurt by what you just did to me." What, make you tell the truth?!!?
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    StuckInAnalog · 13 hr. ago There are a lot of red flags here. Between the lying by omission, the lying about what terms they ended on and the trying to make you feel guilty for asking questions you needed the answers to? Get out of there.
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    His I don't want to make anyone take sides nonsense too...he cheated on his wife. His I forgive you for doing what you just did to me speaks volumes to how much he will manipulate you if you continue this.
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    • misery_sauce 13 hr. ago the guilt trip made my stomach turn. From my own personal experiences, I would be running if I got messages like this. If he thinks it's a waste of time, why would he even ask the last "Do you still want to talk or no" lol. RUN
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    grumpy__g 12 hr. ago And now everybody say it loud and clear: RUN!
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    • Lahotep 12 hr. ago If you haven't replied no yet, you're underreacting.
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    Annual-Bumblebee-310 OP 12 hr. ago Yeah I ended things with a "No. please don't contact me again." Everyone in this comment section makes a valid point. I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt because he had made it seem that
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    he was just under attack and misunderstood but after reading these comments I can see that I was being manipulated. I owe everyone in this comment section a thank you.

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